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Posted: May 24, 2008 9:41:15 am
What is the BIG DEAL with some who can't seem to handle people out in bars/clubs, sober??? I run into this more and more. Forget the whole idea that there are "supposed" to be designated drivers in every group. What gives of those of us who simply don't care to drink, or can't? Mostly I get "what are you here for, then...to pick up on the drunk girls?" PLEEZE! And this usually comes from the one who likes to get wasted. What is the better scenario in their eyes? To get hit on by someone who is "gone" or acting all wild n crazy and not thinking straight anymore, or to deal with someone who remains the same as when they walk in the door? Why does remaining sober peg some as a womanizer whilst getting wasted get the trustworthy label??? How about just plain getting out and being social? How about liking to have a good time? Is that relative only to the inebriated??? How about meeting and making friends? My god! Some people really are bigoted or have some serious baggage! And the most hilarious of it ALL, is that these SAME people will absolutely throw themselves at bartenders...AND THEY ARE ALL SOBER!!!

Last edited May 24, 2008 9:48:40 am
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Posted: August 30, 2008 8:51:41 pm
i hear you...although, if anyone ever gives me shit about not drinking, i don't really give a shit. i really just don't fucking care if someone has a problem with me, and what i put in my body. i mean, if someone is going to make fun of me for something stupid like drinking, as far as i'm concerned, they are a piece of shit, and i don't want them in my life--at all. if i'm at bar, i'm there to socialize, like you said, or to work, to eat, or to see a show. bars don't simply exist to get people drunk, although, of course, that's the most common reason people decide to go to one. people forget that NOT EVERYONE likes being fucking retarded all night. as i have to deal with drunk people every night i work, i appreicate sobriety more than i think most people. if the vast majority if individuals could realize how FUCKING STUPID and douchey they look, act and sound when drunk, i think they'd not only be ashamed of themselves, but they'd quit drinking.

thanks for the good topic. fuck being wasted all the time. it's counterproductive for your life, love, and work, and it does nothing but turn you into one of the hoards of typical young americans. why would you want to be like everyone else?

suz
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Posted: August 31, 2008 3:37:39 am
As a fellow sober nite-owl, I hear you both.
Not to mention some of us are naturally terrible drivers. I can't imagine how much worse I'd be with alcohol!

To shreds you say?
Posted: September 3, 2008 7:26:11 pm
S. Garcia said:
As a fellow sober nite-owl, I hear you both.
Not to mention some of us are naturally terrible drivers. I can't imagine how much worse I'd be with alcohol!



oh, i'm a good driver, and a decent drunk driver, but when i start blacking out and driving myself home i know i just need to, um not drink. that and i hit a deer one time blacked out (i know it's a deer cuz the person with me in the car was drunk too--but not blacked out) and almost really fucked my world up. Sad

hence, i just don't drink anymore. maybe if i wasn't the only registered driver in my house i would--but i just don't even like the feeling too much nowadays.

suz
Gimme just a minute....while I fuck the world.
Posted: September 4, 2008 6:30:16 pm
Yeah, Suz!!! Some people NEVER learn. One guy I know hasn't let months in jail curb his "fun." Another girl I used to date hasn't given up the bottle after blackout driving...and the thousands of dollars for lawyers, dd school, etc. Controlled drinking can be fun. Out of control is just...sad.Embarassed
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