What boys are teaching me

These are some things I am learning about men: 

A few years ago, I met this guy. My dad's psychic told me was my soulmate. He wasn't.  We never went out on a date, but we had a whole relationship in my head, complete with a breakup. That's why you shouldnt listen to psychics.

Anyway, we were friends and in the actual conversations I had with him, I learned something about how some men approach dating.

He told me that when he was younger he wouldn’t let himself date a girl for longer than two months because that was around the time he would start to catch feelings.

"So that’s why guys do that!" I exclaimed.

Ladies, raise your hand if this has happened to you: Girl dates boy, boy seems totally normal at first, boy acts like he likes girl as much as girl likes him, boy sleeps with girl, out of nowhere, boy freaks out, boy decides he can’t date girl anymore, boy gives girl a lame line, girl is left wondering "Umm, what just happened here?"

Some boys have told me they break it off because they want to hurt the woman before she ends up hurting them. But this boy said he broke it off because he didn’t want a relationship and if it lasted more than two months, that’s where things would head.

"What’s wrong with a relationship if the girl makes you feel good? Why can’t you  just let yourself be happy?"

He thought he was doing these girls a favor. He said "I wanted to be able to sleep with as many women as possible. And I didn’t want to cheat, so by breaking it off, I wouldn’t end up hurting them."

"Wait, stop. You are trying not to hurt them by breaking up with them? Makes perfect sense to me."