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I am a 28-year-old Kansas City transplant from Michigan. I am in no way a dating expert. In fact, I often have a love-hate relationship with dating. But when it comes to talking about dating, it's all love.

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2008 (172)
- November (13)
  - 20th: Let it go, already - 9:40 am
  - 19th: Where do I meet people? - 9:45 am
  - 18th: Hold the puke - 9:15 am
  - 15th: Married cheating is not new - 11:20 pm
  - 14th: A lady in the street ... - 9:50 am
  - 13th: Let's talk about sex ... among other things - 7:20 am
  - 12th: Angel in a centerfold - 9:00 am
  - 10th: And now ... FaceMyDrama - 9:15 am
  - 7th: Get a clue, get a date - 9:35 am
  - 6th: Close the deal already - 9:45 am
  - 5th: First date don'ts - 11:40 am
  - 4th: You voted Libertarian? This will never work - 9:40 am
  - 3rd: Big date, little money - 9:35 am
- October (23)
  - 31st: Put a ring on it - 9:25 am
  - 31st: Dating the undead - 1:40 am
  - 30th: The things you learn on TV - 9:45 am
  - 29th: A sordid past - 9:05 am
  - 28th: College kids and the deed - 11:05 am
  - 27th: Thinking about online dating? - 9:45 am
  - 24th: No sex = $10,000 wedding - 9:35 am
  - 23rd: I don't know about you ... - 9:40 am
  - 22nd: My adventures in dating - 9:40 am
  - 21st: Guys, do you know what girls want? - 10:05 am
  - 20th: You did what on a first date? - 9:00 am
  - 17th: Out of my league - 9:20 am
  - 16th: Nap or nookie? - 9:25 am
  - 15th: Guest Blog: Are you high? - 9:10 am
  - 14th: OK, this is the last time I talk sex - 10:20 am
  - 13th: Love and lambchops - 10:45 am
  - 10th: Can I get a table dance? - 9:10 am
  - 9th: Guest blog: To co-habitate or no? - 9:35 am
  - 7th: Suddenly single? - 9:35 am
  - 6th: Soccer, lovers and girls in bikinis - 9:45 am
  - 3rd: Dating and texting - 10:30 am
  - 2nd: Don't go on a date if ... - 11:30 am
  - 1st: Wedding belles - 9:25 am
- September (22)
  - 30th: Guest blog: Name this sex act - 9:45 am
  - 29th: The God of the hook-ups - 9:55 am
  - 24th: Like Pam and Tommy Lee's sex tape ... - 9:55 am
  - 23rd: Umm ... you suck in the sack - 8:00 am
  - 22nd: How not to be psycho - 11:15 am
  - 19th: Talk is cheap - 12:05 am
  - 18th: Do you need flirting lessons? - 10:40 am
  - 17th: Words from the wise - 9:35 am
  - 16th: Playing into male fantasies - 2:20 pm
  - 15th: Betrayals - 10:35 am
  - 15th: What's the worst way you've been blown off - 10:00 am
  - 12th: Did Ink get you laid? - 10:50 am
  - 11th: Guys, would you get snipped? - 9:20 am
  - 10th: Speaking of self pleasure - 9:10 am
  - 10th: Marrying the wrong man - 9:00 am
  - 9th: Sex on the first date - 8:05 am
  - 8th: The weekend fling - 10:30 am
  - 5th: Bringing home the bacon - 11:20 am
  - 4th: More from the "that's not hot" files - 9:50 am
  - 3rd: My services are free - 3:05 pm
  - 2nd: Moms and sex - 9:05 am
  - 1st: Bad in bed - 9:40 am
- August (22)
  - 29th: Sex addiction? I'm not buying it - 11:15 am
  - 28th: Flair for your package? - 3:40 pm
  - 27th: Church hookups - 10:10 am
  - 26th: Why was I dissed? - 9:40 am
  - 25th: What is cheating? - 9:30 am
  - 22nd: Spray-on condoms? Really? - 9:00 am
  - 21st: The condom song - 9:15 am
  - 20th: Did we have sex last night? - 9:10 am
  - 19th: Like a virgin - 10:10 am
  - 18th: Spider-Man has his curse, I have mine - 9:20 am
  - 15th: Guest blog: Labor of long-distance love - 10:00 am
  - 14th: No need to knock the cobwebs off ... - 10:30 am
  - 13th: Dating tips, as promised - 11:05 am
  - 12th: This site is killing the game - 9:00 am
  - 11th: Guest blog: Newly Defined Soul Mates - 9:55 am
  - 8th: Rude breakup behavior - 10:05 am
  - 7th: The sexiest movie you've ever seen - 10:55 am
  - 6th: Hot for teacher - 11:25 am
  - 5th: Speaking of sex - 4:20 pm
  - 4th: Y'all are weak - 4:45 pm
  - 2nd: Guest Blog: On loving her best friend - 9:20 am
  - 1st: Guest blog: The online dating adventure continues - 12:05 pm
- July (24)
  - 31st: Secret lovers - 10:40 am
  - 30th: Doing it big in relationships - 9:05 am
  - 29th: Breakup rituals - 9:25 am
  - 28th: Try these condoms on for size - 11:15 am
  - 26th: Being "The Bachelor" - 2:35 pm
  - 25th: Guest blog: An online dating adventure begins - 9:35 am
  - 24th: Want to be wanted? Make yourself scarce - 9:15 am
  - 23rd: When bad timing happens to good people - 7:10 am
  - 22nd: I won't do THAT - 9:00 am
  - 21st: Seniors take to online dating - 9:15 am
  - 18th: Bad kissers and how to stop them - 6:45 am
  - 17th: Guest blog: Focused on the wrong girl - 8:10 am
  - 16th: Women arrested in oral competition - 11:00 am
  - 15th: How far would you drive for love? - 7:40 am
  - 14th: Backups for the bedroom - 6:40 am
  - 11th: Your timing sucks - 6:50 am
  - 10th: Guest Blog: Man eBay - 6:00 am
  - 9th: Confessions of a serial monogamist - 10:20 am
  - 8th: Guest blog: Tell The Truth ... - 1:10 am
  - 7th: Do you online stalk? - 7:30 am
  - 4th: Make some fireworks - 2:35 am
  - 3rd: Shut up and kiss me - 1:35 am
  - 2nd: Once it hits your lips, it's so good - 3:40 am
  - 1st: Be loud ladies, monkey men like it. - 5:15 am
- June (16)
  - 30th: A pimp or a loser? - 12:40 pm
  - 30th: Four girls, a keg and a big idea - 7:50 am
  - 27th: Guest blog: Oneitus - 8:00 am
  - 26th: Guest blog: Whatever happened to dating? - 8:00 am
  - 25th: "in case we had sex I didnt want to remember" - 9:35 am
  - 25th: Young people doin' the nasty - 8:00 am
  - 23rd: Old people doin' the nasty - 9:00 am
  - 13th: Taking three men at a time - 1:05 pm
  - 12th: I regulate every shade of that ... - 2:25 pm
  - 12th: SiKC - 11:40 am
  - 12th: Coming up for air - 10:00 am
  - 11th: Is it art or is it porn? - 12:30 pm
  - 11th: "What makes a date movie?" - 6:25 am
  - 9th: Sex: how much is enough? - 4:30 pm
  - 5th: "Looking for girls in all the wrong places" - 3:05 pm
  - 4th: More places to find dates - 9:20 pm
- May (5)
  - 22nd: Steamy summer spots - 1:50 pm
  - 19th: "My ex-girlfriend loved Celine Dion" - 12:05 pm
  - 19th: Buying condoms and the walk of shame - 7:30 am
  - 14th: Personal massager? - 12:20 pm
  - 11th: Date at your own risk - 6:30 pm
- April (46)
  - 29th: Are you a woman under 26? - 11:30 am
  - 28th: Cheater, cheater pumkin eater - 11:55 am
  - 25th: Mood music - 10:10 am
  - 25th: Candles. Cheesedick or romantic? - 9:35 am
  - 24th: What boys are teaching me - 3:00 pm
  - 22nd: The best policy - 2:10 am
  - 21st: Don't sweat the haters - 10:15 pm
  - 21st: Breakup sex, the saga continues - 12:15 pm
  - 18th: Under the skin - 11:45 pm
  - 18th: Dating hasn't changed much - 11:35 pm
  - 18th: That's f'ing rude - 10:00 pm
  - 18th: "We-jaculation" - 9:55 pm
  - 18th: Jerk Island - 3:35 pm
  - 18th: When did you get married? - 12:55 pm
  - 18th: That ain't sexy - 11:20 am
  - 18th: Single girl army - 9:10 am
  - 18th: Getting the digits - 12:15 am
  - 17th: Magic number - 10:30 pm
  - 17th: Mr. "I just wanna get married" - 9:20 pm
  - 17th: Yes, he'd hit that - 9:15 pm
  - 17th: You can quote me - 7:35 pm
  - 17th: You slept with that? - 6:30 pm
  - 17th: Woman power - 2:10 pm
  - 17th: Look at that body - 12:25 pm
  - 17th: Duped by a dork - 10:00 am
  - 17th: It's always something - 12:15 am
  - 16th: Talk sexy to me - 10:55 pm
  - 16th: What's in your boxers? - 9:55 pm
  - 16th: This one's for you, married people - 9:35 pm
  - 16th: Personality types - 8:25 pm
  - 16th: Dating technology - 6:20 pm
  - 16th: First dates - 12:05 pm
  - 15th: Going it alone - 9:25 pm
  - 15th: Sex and the single mom - 4:05 pm
  - 15th: Boyfriend material vs. bedroom material - 2:30 am
  - 14th: Was your prom this dramatic? - 8:35 pm
  - 14th: Living single - 8:30 pm
  - 14th: Well, we still have "hot hate sex" - 6:05 pm
  - 14th: just to clarify - 5:35 pm
  - 14th: Stop with the Va-jay-jay - 1:15 am
  - 13th: You've thought about it ... - 2:10 am
  - 12th: Quit hating on online dating - 5:40 pm
  - 12th: Breakup sex: The beginning - 2:35 am
  - 11th: SINGLES OUT -- a story from 2005 - 2:10 am
  - 3rd: 'Good sex lasts 3 to 13 minutes' - 9:25 am
  - 1st: This week's tip: Leave the panties on - 11:40 am
- March (1)
  - 31st: Last chance for FREE stuff! - 5:25 pm

Guest blog: Name this sex act

I asked for your dating and sex questions, and I got one. If you would ever like to write a guest blog or pose a question for the public, like this girl frink did, drop me a line.

Question:

"My boyfriend and I have an ongoing dispute regarding oral sex. He claims it is only called a "blowjob" if the umm ... finale is done in the mouth ... otherwise it's just sucking. I claim that any oral sex, involving the mouth and penis, is catergorized as a "blowjob". So I thought I would get the general public's opinion and put this disagreement to bed."

(7) Comments

Posted on: Sep 30 2008 - 09:45:00 AM

Tags: DATING SEX

7 Comments - leave comment

It's still a blowjob. Since when does the case of Swallow v. Spit have a say in the matter?

Posted 7 weeks ago by monica watrous

You are correct. Your boyfriend is wrong.

Posted 7 weeks ago by Rezn8

it depends on the delivery. Is it done while having sex? You can have or "oral sex" as forplay. or you can get a blowjob. i think they are completely different. spitting vs. swallowing has nothing to do with it. hell, the load could end up on the floor and it would still be a blowjob!

Posted 7 weeks ago by SLIMMphoto

I agree with SLIMM on this one. Just putting a penis in your mouth doesn't mean you gave a blowjob. The penis in your mouth has to be the main event of that particular rendezvous. Not swallowing doesn't disqualify it as a blowjob (though it could affect the quality.)

Posted 7 weeks ago by SavageAnimal

Ask Super Head!!!

Posted 7 weeks ago by jazzman2952

Ask Super Head she gives great blowjobs!!!

Posted 7 weeks ago by jazzman2952

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fellatio Fellatio, or, more precisely, fellating to the point of orgasm, is commonly referred to as a blow job.

Posted 7 weeks ago by paulie