Why was I dissed?

If you have ever wondered that (and I have) you can go to this Web site and have them find out for you. I know there are situations when you can't understand why someone dumped you and they don't answer your phone call (calls plural if you're desperate) to tell you why and that drives you crazy. You just want to know: What happened? Was it something I said? Something I did? Can I know so I don't do it again?

The site says: "After beginning your investigation, FREE OF CHARGE, we will contact the communication avoider with your investigation case number. They will be asked a series of personalized questions accompanied with multiple-choice answers and fill in the blank options. Once they’ve responded, we will let you know the results immediately.

If they choose not to respond the first time, we will try once more. Maybe there was a glitch, or they were too busy to go to the website, or forgot. However, if after two weeks, they continue to avoid answering, then that is a pattern of behavior we are unable to change. This person has deep-seated issues with communication that extend way beyond you."

Riight. Or maybe they just have better things to do with their time. And "investigation?" Stalker, party of one!

Sometimes you just have to let it go. Then again, that's easy for me to say now. Two or three years ago, I would have been on that site crying and typing furiously after one of my two-week relationships went up in flames.

But, having been there, done that, I'd say if you were dissed just tell yourself that person pyscho or not good enough, or clueless or maybe a hermaphrodite. I've said this before. Those excuses -- plus admitting I was maybe a little psycho too -- always worked for me.