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I am a 28-year-old Kansas City transplant from Michigan. I am in no way a dating expert. In fact, I often have a love-hate relationship with dating. But when it comes to talking about dating, it's all love.

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2008 (172)
- November (13)
  - 20th: Let it go, already - 9:40 am
  - 19th: Where do I meet people? - 9:45 am
  - 18th: Hold the puke - 9:15 am
  - 15th: Married cheating is not new - 11:20 pm
  - 14th: A lady in the street ... - 9:50 am
  - 13th: Let's talk about sex ... among other things - 7:20 am
  - 12th: Angel in a centerfold - 9:00 am
  - 10th: And now ... FaceMyDrama - 9:15 am
  - 7th: Get a clue, get a date - 9:35 am
  - 6th: Close the deal already - 9:45 am
  - 5th: First date don'ts - 11:40 am
  - 4th: You voted Libertarian? This will never work - 9:40 am
  - 3rd: Big date, little money - 9:35 am
- October (23)
  - 31st: Put a ring on it - 9:25 am
  - 31st: Dating the undead - 1:40 am
  - 30th: The things you learn on TV - 9:45 am
  - 29th: A sordid past - 9:05 am
  - 28th: College kids and the deed - 11:05 am
  - 27th: Thinking about online dating? - 9:45 am
  - 24th: No sex = $10,000 wedding - 9:35 am
  - 23rd: I don't know about you ... - 9:40 am
  - 22nd: My adventures in dating - 9:40 am
  - 21st: Guys, do you know what girls want? - 10:05 am
  - 20th: You did what on a first date? - 9:00 am
  - 17th: Out of my league - 9:20 am
  - 16th: Nap or nookie? - 9:25 am
  - 15th: Guest Blog: Are you high? - 9:10 am
  - 14th: OK, this is the last time I talk sex - 10:20 am
  - 13th: Love and lambchops - 10:45 am
  - 10th: Can I get a table dance? - 9:10 am
  - 9th: Guest blog: To co-habitate or no? - 9:35 am
  - 7th: Suddenly single? - 9:35 am
  - 6th: Soccer, lovers and girls in bikinis - 9:45 am
  - 3rd: Dating and texting - 10:30 am
  - 2nd: Don't go on a date if ... - 11:30 am
  - 1st: Wedding belles - 9:25 am
- September (22)
  - 30th: Guest blog: Name this sex act - 9:45 am
  - 29th: The God of the hook-ups - 9:55 am
  - 24th: Like Pam and Tommy Lee's sex tape ... - 9:55 am
  - 23rd: Umm ... you suck in the sack - 8:00 am
  - 22nd: How not to be psycho - 11:15 am
  - 19th: Talk is cheap - 12:05 am
  - 18th: Do you need flirting lessons? - 10:40 am
  - 17th: Words from the wise - 9:35 am
  - 16th: Playing into male fantasies - 2:20 pm
  - 15th: Betrayals - 10:35 am
  - 15th: What's the worst way you've been blown off - 10:00 am
  - 12th: Did Ink get you laid? - 10:50 am
  - 11th: Guys, would you get snipped? - 9:20 am
  - 10th: Speaking of self pleasure - 9:10 am
  - 10th: Marrying the wrong man - 9:00 am
  - 9th: Sex on the first date - 8:05 am
  - 8th: The weekend fling - 10:30 am
  - 5th: Bringing home the bacon - 11:20 am
  - 4th: More from the "that's not hot" files - 9:50 am
  - 3rd: My services are free - 3:05 pm
  - 2nd: Moms and sex - 9:05 am
  - 1st: Bad in bed - 9:40 am
- August (22)
  - 29th: Sex addiction? I'm not buying it - 11:15 am
  - 28th: Flair for your package? - 3:40 pm
  - 27th: Church hookups - 10:10 am
  - 26th: Why was I dissed? - 9:40 am
  - 25th: What is cheating? - 9:30 am
  - 22nd: Spray-on condoms? Really? - 9:00 am
  - 21st: The condom song - 9:15 am
  - 20th: Did we have sex last night? - 9:10 am
  - 19th: Like a virgin - 10:10 am
  - 18th: Spider-Man has his curse, I have mine - 9:20 am
  - 15th: Guest blog: Labor of long-distance love - 10:00 am
  - 14th: No need to knock the cobwebs off ... - 10:30 am
  - 13th: Dating tips, as promised - 11:05 am
  - 12th: This site is killing the game - 9:00 am
  - 11th: Guest blog: Newly Defined Soul Mates - 9:55 am
  - 8th: Rude breakup behavior - 10:05 am
  - 7th: The sexiest movie you've ever seen - 10:55 am
  - 6th: Hot for teacher - 11:25 am
  - 5th: Speaking of sex - 4:20 pm
  - 4th: Y'all are weak - 4:45 pm
  - 2nd: Guest Blog: On loving her best friend - 9:20 am
  - 1st: Guest blog: The online dating adventure continues - 12:05 pm
- July (24)
  - 31st: Secret lovers - 10:40 am
  - 30th: Doing it big in relationships - 9:05 am
  - 29th: Breakup rituals - 9:25 am
  - 28th: Try these condoms on for size - 11:15 am
  - 26th: Being "The Bachelor" - 2:35 pm
  - 25th: Guest blog: An online dating adventure begins - 9:35 am
  - 24th: Want to be wanted? Make yourself scarce - 9:15 am
  - 23rd: When bad timing happens to good people - 7:10 am
  - 22nd: I won't do THAT - 9:00 am
  - 21st: Seniors take to online dating - 9:15 am
  - 18th: Bad kissers and how to stop them - 6:45 am
  - 17th: Guest blog: Focused on the wrong girl - 8:10 am
  - 16th: Women arrested in oral competition - 11:00 am
  - 15th: How far would you drive for love? - 7:40 am
  - 14th: Backups for the bedroom - 6:40 am
  - 11th: Your timing sucks - 6:50 am
  - 10th: Guest Blog: Man eBay - 6:00 am
  - 9th: Confessions of a serial monogamist - 10:20 am
  - 8th: Guest blog: Tell The Truth ... - 1:10 am
  - 7th: Do you online stalk? - 7:30 am
  - 4th: Make some fireworks - 2:35 am
  - 3rd: Shut up and kiss me - 1:35 am
  - 2nd: Once it hits your lips, it's so good - 3:40 am
  - 1st: Be loud ladies, monkey men like it. - 5:15 am
- June (16)
  - 30th: A pimp or a loser? - 12:40 pm
  - 30th: Four girls, a keg and a big idea - 7:50 am
  - 27th: Guest blog: Oneitus - 8:00 am
  - 26th: Guest blog: Whatever happened to dating? - 8:00 am
  - 25th: "in case we had sex I didnt want to remember" - 9:35 am
  - 25th: Young people doin' the nasty - 8:00 am
  - 23rd: Old people doin' the nasty - 9:00 am
  - 13th: Taking three men at a time - 1:05 pm
  - 12th: I regulate every shade of that ... - 2:25 pm
  - 12th: SiKC - 11:40 am
  - 12th: Coming up for air - 10:00 am
  - 11th: Is it art or is it porn? - 12:30 pm
  - 11th: "What makes a date movie?" - 6:25 am
  - 9th: Sex: how much is enough? - 4:30 pm
  - 5th: "Looking for girls in all the wrong places" - 3:05 pm
  - 4th: More places to find dates - 9:20 pm
- May (5)
  - 22nd: Steamy summer spots - 1:50 pm
  - 19th: "My ex-girlfriend loved Celine Dion" - 12:05 pm
  - 19th: Buying condoms and the walk of shame - 7:30 am
  - 14th: Personal massager? - 12:20 pm
  - 11th: Date at your own risk - 6:30 pm
- April (46)
  - 29th: Are you a woman under 26? - 11:30 am
  - 28th: Cheater, cheater pumkin eater - 11:55 am
  - 25th: Mood music - 10:10 am
  - 25th: Candles. Cheesedick or romantic? - 9:35 am
  - 24th: What boys are teaching me - 3:00 pm
  - 22nd: The best policy - 2:10 am
  - 21st: Don't sweat the haters - 10:15 pm
  - 21st: Breakup sex, the saga continues - 12:15 pm
  - 18th: Under the skin - 11:45 pm
  - 18th: Dating hasn't changed much - 11:35 pm
  - 18th: That's f'ing rude - 10:00 pm
  - 18th: "We-jaculation" - 9:55 pm
  - 18th: Jerk Island - 3:35 pm
  - 18th: When did you get married? - 12:55 pm
  - 18th: That ain't sexy - 11:20 am
  - 18th: Single girl army - 9:10 am
  - 18th: Getting the digits - 12:15 am
  - 17th: Magic number - 10:30 pm
  - 17th: Mr. "I just wanna get married" - 9:20 pm
  - 17th: Yes, he'd hit that - 9:15 pm
  - 17th: You can quote me - 7:35 pm
  - 17th: You slept with that? - 6:30 pm
  - 17th: Woman power - 2:10 pm
  - 17th: Look at that body - 12:25 pm
  - 17th: Duped by a dork - 10:00 am
  - 17th: It's always something - 12:15 am
  - 16th: Talk sexy to me - 10:55 pm
  - 16th: What's in your boxers? - 9:55 pm
  - 16th: This one's for you, married people - 9:35 pm
  - 16th: Personality types - 8:25 pm
  - 16th: Dating technology - 6:20 pm
  - 16th: First dates - 12:05 pm
  - 15th: Going it alone - 9:25 pm
  - 15th: Sex and the single mom - 4:05 pm
  - 15th: Boyfriend material vs. bedroom material - 2:30 am
  - 14th: Was your prom this dramatic? - 8:35 pm
  - 14th: Living single - 8:30 pm
  - 14th: Well, we still have "hot hate sex" - 6:05 pm
  - 14th: just to clarify - 5:35 pm
  - 14th: Stop with the Va-jay-jay - 1:15 am
  - 13th: You've thought about it ... - 2:10 am
  - 12th: Quit hating on online dating - 5:40 pm
  - 12th: Breakup sex: The beginning - 2:35 am
  - 11th: SINGLES OUT -- a story from 2005 - 2:10 am
  - 3rd: 'Good sex lasts 3 to 13 minutes' - 9:25 am
  - 1st: This week's tip: Leave the panties on - 11:40 am
- March (1)
  - 31st: Last chance for FREE stuff! - 5:25 pm

The sexiest movie you've ever seen

What is it? And before you type in something like "Yank My Doodle," I am not talking about anything hard core (or soft core).

I'm a girl and an admitted lover of chick flicks so I have quite the selection. It doesn't help that I'm not very decisive. I also think action is surprisingly arousing. I think "Desperado" is sexy. But I give my vote to "9 1/2 Weeks." Mickey Rourke is ... I have no words. The thing I best is this:

"Let me tell you something. You don't do dishes. You don't ever have to do dishes. I'll do the dishes. And I'll buy the groceries. And I'll cook the food. And I'll feed you. And I'll dress you in the morning. And I'll undress you at night. And I'll bathe you. And I'll take care of you. And you can see your friends in the daytime. I just want the nighttime ... from now on to be ... ours."

This was all because he didn't want to meet her friends, which is slightly creepy. And his character is slightly crazy in the movie, but you tell me, what's sexier than a man saying I don't ever have to do the dishes? Or buy groceries or cook? I would take him being a little on the crazy side in exchange for all that, not to mention the smoldering good looks.

If you can't think of your sexiest movie, then at least is there a
memorable love scene that you like (and perhaps wish
you could act out)?

Check out this list of best places to get busy and see if any good movie scenes come to mind.

Then tell me your vote for sexiest movie or sexiest love scene.

Or even better, create a list.

(6) Comments

Posted on: Aug 7 2008 - 10:55:00 AM

Tags: DATING MOVIES

6 Comments - leave comment

Possibly the sexiest movie for me is "Ghost World." Something about a hot girl not having a problem with me being an obsessive nerd is kinda compelling. (Though, now that I think about it, they're kinda making fun of him.) Scratch that answer. I'm going with "Sin City."

Posted 15 weeks ago by Charles Gooch

I'm excited for the new movie: Vicky Cristina Barcelona

Posted 15 weeks ago by Rezn8

My vote is "Secretary." I think Maggie Gyllenhaal is way sexier than fembots like the Jessicas (Simpson and Alba). I also like "Match Point."

Posted 15 weeks ago by Sarah Benson

8MM

Posted 15 weeks ago by Adam

The ice scene from Do the Right Thing with Spike Lee and Rosie Perez is pretty good. Though Spike Lee and Rosie Perez aren't particularly sexy on their own. And am I to assume that since there is nothing sexier than a man telling you that you never have to do dishes that dish-pan-hands are your biggest turn off?

Posted 15 weeks ago by SavageAnimal

If he has dish-pan hands because I didn't have to do the dishes, that is a total turn on!

Posted 14 weeks ago by Pamela Spencer