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- 2009 (114)
- July (2)
- 3rd: What no one talks about - 7:55 am
- 1st: Tired of waiting - 1:30 am
- June (14)
- 29th: Wet and wild dating - 8:00 am
- 25th: Weekend Date Idea: It's in the hole - 10:15 am
- 22nd: What's the best bar to meet someone? - 3:05 pm
- 21st: Blinding me with science - 7:25 pm
- 19th: What about your friends - 12:25 am
- 18th: Weekend date idea: Do you like to watch? - 2:35 am
- 17th: Hottest and naughtiest bachelors - 6:00 pm
- 15th: Why you should like dating - 11:25 pm
- 11th: Staying positive on KC's dating scene - 12:25 pm
- 9th: Weekend date idea: Eat something - 5:15 pm
- 7th: DJ Jazzy Jeff and the P&L - 4:50 pm
- 4th: You ain't no holla back girl - 2:20 am
- 3rd: Weekend date ideas: Party, party, party - 8:20 am
- 1st: What isn't on Craigslist? - 12:55 am
- May (18)
- 29th: It's a shame - 9:10 am
- 27th: Weekend date ideas: Get your culture fix - 8:35 am
- 25th: Healing heart trumps a cheating heart - 12:55 pm
- 22nd: The big payback - 8:05 am
- 21st: Beer vs. wine - 8:50 am
- 20th: Weekend Date Ideas: Fire and water - 11:40 pm
- 18th: No strings attatched - 5:40 pm
- 15th: "Just friends" - 8:00 am
- 14th: Twitter dating - 8:50 am
- 13th: Single in the Spotlight: Matt O'Barr - 8:50 am
- 12th: Weekend date idea No. 1 - 8:15 am
- 11th: Friend stealers - 9:15 am
- 8th: There's no piece of tail worth this - 8:45 am
- 7th: Tips for daters? - 8:45 am
- 6th: If you need someone to talk to - 8:40 am
- 5th: The science of dating - 8:05 am
- 4th: We'll have to wait on that strip Twister - 9:20 am
- 1st: Sexy advice - 9:05 am
- April (20)
- 30th: Wanna play? - 8:50 am
- 29th: Do opposites attract? - 8:20 am
- 28th: Race and online dating - 8:40 am
- 27th: Let's just cuddle - 7:55 am
- 23rd: Things are about to heat up - 10:10 am
- 22nd: You didn't plan this, did you? - 8:25 am
- 21st: Video speed dating - 8:50 am
- 20th: Fast love - 12:40 am
- 18th: Feeling sexy - 1:50 am
- 17th: 101 ways to get noticed - 7:25 am
- 16th: KC's longest happy hours - 9:35 am
- 15th: A text message for all - 8:50 am
- 13th: Cheap and easy - 9:30 am
- 13th: If you got down and dirty ... - 8:50 am
- 10th: Tell me your worst breakup stories - 9:05 am
- 9th: This is why dating stinks - 9:30 am
- 8th: Stuck in a rut or bringing the ruckus? - 6:05 am
- 6th: Is dating harder when you're smart? - 1:35 pm
- 2nd: Calling all artists - 11:05 am
- 1st: Cheap and easy - 8:35 am
- March (20)
- 31st: Playing some D - 8:25 am
- 30th: Dating by mobile phone - 9:00 am
- 27th: Get served -- like Kansas is going to - 1:15 pm
- 26th: Who's your favorite nerd? - 9:05 am
- 25th: Love and comics - 10:40 am
- 24th: Boy crazy - 9:00 am
- 20th: Did you plan this? - 8:45 am
- 19th: Go Down Together - 9:30 am
- 18th: Sex is not a crime - 2:05 am
- 16th: Girls, girls, girls - 2:00 am
- 13th: Eharmony's gay dating site to launch - 7:55 am
- 12th: Obama loves women, too - 2:40 am
- 11th: Dating in KC is ... - 8:15 am
- 10th: What matters to you? - 8:45 am
- 8th: I love women - 8:20 am
- 6th: Is first love overrated? - 9:20 am
- 5th: Not-so-sexy movie and rope climbers - 7:55 am
- 4th: Love times two and sex and you - 9:00 am
- 3rd: Day of Caring - 9:45 am
- 2nd: The recession and your love life - 2:10 am
- February (18)
- 27th: Love sexy movies? - 11:15 am
- 25th: Cheap eating dates - 6:10 am
- 24th: Not giving it up - 9:00 am
- 23rd: Finding love on facebook - 8:10 am
- 18th: The appeal of jerks - 8:00 am
- 18th: Bristol Palin on teen moms, her mom and sex - 2:05 am
- 17th: Are you in a bad relationship? - 9:00 am
- 16th: Getting busy on the Web - 7:00 am
- 13th: Food, sex and the economy - 9:00 am
- 12th: ... And still hating - 8:35 am
- 11th: For all major haters -- something else to do Feb. 14 - 8:10 am
- 10th: Love in the 'burbs - 7:55 am
- 8th: Romantic eats - 8:05 am
- 6th: SHE's just not that into you - 9:30 am
- 5th: Heavy petting - 9:05 am
- 4th: Did this book change your life? - 7:25 am
- 3rd: Competing couples - 6:15 am
- 2nd: You're a bad kisser and ... - 8:40 am
- January (22)
- 29th: Don't underestimate the power of a good bra - 10:35 am
- 28th: Love in this club - 8:40 am
- 27th: Finding love in the '09 - 8:20 am
- 26th: Off the hook lovin' - 8:30 am
- 23rd: After the wedding - 8:50 am
- 22nd: Get married minus the crazy - 8:35 am
- 21st: Chasing your tail - 8:25 am
- 20th: Older dating - 9:00 am
- 19th: Valentine's Day: Love it or hate it? - 8:00 am
- 16th: Be the rock - 8:45 am
- 15th: Free dating, pricey girl - 8:40 am
- 14th: Get tested - 9:20 am
- 13th: Adult toy story - 9:00 am
- 12th: The sexes and the bars - 9:05 am
- 9th: Guest Blog: How far do I have to go to find love? - 8:40 am
- 8th: Solo vacations - 9:45 am
- 8th: Porn industry stimulus package - 8:10 am
- 7th: Dipping your pen - 8:45 am
- 6th: More dating resolutions - 8:00 am
- 5th: Her mission for 2009: Get married - 9:05 am
- 2nd: Any room for me in those genes? - 9:15 am
- 1st: Older man, younger woman - 9:30 am
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From Frink Rezn8:
So I have this ‘on again, off again’ relationship with this girl (but she is not a ‘girl friend’). Let’s call her Susie. I met up with her at a bar; we’re listening to some music, talking about old times.
Later in the evening, she’s giving me the ‘bedroom eyes’, more and more. We’re sitting close, getting touchy feely, all that stuff. We move the conversation outside, to where she and the other patrons can smoke. Another, more attractive girl enters the frame, lets call her Jane. Susie, a bit drunk now, aims to make it clear to this new girl that I’m here with her.
Guys: You can and should work this to your advantage.
Girls: You know you love what you can’t have.
Later, while Susie is at the bar, I’m minding my own business (seriously), just chilling, watching the extra inning All Star game. Jane walks by and we begin talking.
Guys: This is where I messed up. I was focused on the wrong girl. “The sure thing”, as they call it. Gimme a break. Girls are quite finicky, the only time it’s a sure thing is when you are both naked and she’s purring.
So, anyways, Jane has a “friend”. You know, some guy who hangs around and is obviously “just the friend”. Kind of like a pawn chess piece.
Guys: Don’t let the “friend” turn you off to the opportunity. You can and should use him to your advantage. Just befriend him. But, keep your primary conversation with the girl.
Susie comes back with her drink, again, doing her best to show Jane that she ain’t leaving with me. She’s a bit belligerent, ranting, raving, about God knows what. Jane is confused and just leaves.
Guys: Let me ask you something. Why in the world would I continue to focus my attention to Susie? -Why would I not go try and find Jane, at this point? Yes; those are rhetorical questions.
Anyways; long story short. I didn’t leave with either of them. Why? Because girls are finicky. Susie got wasted, her behavior turned south and she ended up taking a taxi home. New girl (Jane)? I don’t know what happened to her. Like I said, even though I should have, I didn’t put my focus on her.




