Guest blog: Focused on the wrong girl

From Frink Rezn8:

So I have this ‘on again, off again’ relationship with this girl (but she is not a ‘girl friend’). Let’s call her Susie. I met up with her at a bar; we’re listening to some music, talking about old times.

Later in the evening, she’s giving me the ‘bedroom eyes’, more and more. We’re sitting close, getting touchy feely, all that stuff. We move the conversation outside, to where she and the other patrons can smoke. Another, more attractive girl enters the frame, lets call her Jane. Susie, a bit drunk now, aims to make it clear to this new girl that I’m here with her.

Guys: You can and should work this to your advantage.
Girls: You know you love what you can’t have.

Later, while Susie is at the bar, I’m minding my own business (seriously), just chilling, watching the extra inning All Star game. Jane walks by and we begin talking.

Guys: This is where I messed up. I was focused on the wrong girl. “The sure thing”, as they call it. Gimme a break. Girls are quite finicky, the only time it’s a sure thing is when you are both naked and she’s purring.

So, anyways, Jane has a “friend”. You know, some guy who hangs around and is obviously “just the friend”. Kind of like a pawn chess piece.

Guys: Don’t let the “friend” turn you off to the opportunity. You can and should use him to your advantage. Just befriend him. But, keep your primary conversation with the girl.

Susie comes back with her drink, again, doing her best to show Jane that she ain’t leaving with me. She’s a bit belligerent, ranting, raving, about God knows what. Jane is confused and just leaves.

Guys: Let me ask you something. Why in the world would I continue to focus my attention to Susie? -Why would I not go try and find Jane, at this point? Yes; those are rhetorical questions.

Anyways; long story short. I didn’t leave with either of them. Why? Because girls are finicky. Susie got wasted, her behavior turned south and she ended up taking a taxi home. New girl (Jane)? I don’t know what happened to her. Like I said, even though I should have, I didn’t put my focus on her.