Pamela Spencer
I am a 28-year-old Kansas City transplant from Michigan. I am in no way a dating expert. In fact, I often have a love-hate relationship with dating. But when it comes to talking about dating, it's all love.
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- 2009 (114)
- July (2)
- 3rd: What no one talks about - 7:55 am
- 1st: Tired of waiting - 1:30 am
- June (14)
- 29th: Wet and wild dating - 8:00 am
- 25th: Weekend Date Idea: It's in the hole - 10:15 am
- 22nd: What's the best bar to meet someone? - 3:05 pm
- 21st: Blinding me with science - 7:25 pm
- 19th: What about your friends - 12:25 am
- 18th: Weekend date idea: Do you like to watch? - 2:35 am
- 17th: Hottest and naughtiest bachelors - 6:00 pm
- 15th: Why you should like dating - 11:25 pm
- 11th: Staying positive on KC's dating scene - 12:25 pm
- 9th: Weekend date idea: Eat something - 5:15 pm
- 7th: DJ Jazzy Jeff and the P&L - 4:50 pm
- 4th: You ain't no holla back girl - 2:20 am
- 3rd: Weekend date ideas: Party, party, party - 8:20 am
- 1st: What isn't on Craigslist? - 12:55 am
- May (18)
- 29th: It's a shame - 9:10 am
- 27th: Weekend date ideas: Get your culture fix - 8:35 am
- 25th: Healing heart trumps a cheating heart - 12:55 pm
- 22nd: The big payback - 8:05 am
- 21st: Beer vs. wine - 8:50 am
- 20th: Weekend Date Ideas: Fire and water - 11:40 pm
- 18th: No strings attatched - 5:40 pm
- 15th: "Just friends" - 8:00 am
- 14th: Twitter dating - 8:50 am
- 13th: Single in the Spotlight: Matt O'Barr - 8:50 am
- 12th: Weekend date idea No. 1 - 8:15 am
- 11th: Friend stealers - 9:15 am
- 8th: There's no piece of tail worth this - 8:45 am
- 7th: Tips for daters? - 8:45 am
- 6th: If you need someone to talk to - 8:40 am
- 5th: The science of dating - 8:05 am
- 4th: We'll have to wait on that strip Twister - 9:20 am
- 1st: Sexy advice - 9:05 am
- April (20)
- 30th: Wanna play? - 8:50 am
- 29th: Do opposites attract? - 8:20 am
- 28th: Race and online dating - 8:40 am
- 27th: Let's just cuddle - 7:55 am
- 23rd: Things are about to heat up - 10:10 am
- 22nd: You didn't plan this, did you? - 8:25 am
- 21st: Video speed dating - 8:50 am
- 20th: Fast love - 12:40 am
- 18th: Feeling sexy - 1:50 am
- 17th: 101 ways to get noticed - 7:25 am
- 16th: KC's longest happy hours - 9:35 am
- 15th: A text message for all - 8:50 am
- 13th: Cheap and easy - 9:30 am
- 13th: If you got down and dirty ... - 8:50 am
- 10th: Tell me your worst breakup stories - 9:05 am
- 9th: This is why dating stinks - 9:30 am
- 8th: Stuck in a rut or bringing the ruckus? - 6:05 am
- 6th: Is dating harder when you're smart? - 1:35 pm
- 2nd: Calling all artists - 11:05 am
- 1st: Cheap and easy - 8:35 am
- March (20)
- 31st: Playing some D - 8:25 am
- 30th: Dating by mobile phone - 9:00 am
- 27th: Get served -- like Kansas is going to - 1:15 pm
- 26th: Who's your favorite nerd? - 9:05 am
- 25th: Love and comics - 10:40 am
- 24th: Boy crazy - 9:00 am
- 20th: Did you plan this? - 8:45 am
- 19th: Go Down Together - 9:30 am
- 18th: Sex is not a crime - 2:05 am
- 16th: Girls, girls, girls - 2:00 am
- 13th: Eharmony's gay dating site to launch - 7:55 am
- 12th: Obama loves women, too - 2:40 am
- 11th: Dating in KC is ... - 8:15 am
- 10th: What matters to you? - 8:45 am
- 8th: I love women - 8:20 am
- 6th: Is first love overrated? - 9:20 am
- 5th: Not-so-sexy movie and rope climbers - 7:55 am
- 4th: Love times two and sex and you - 9:00 am
- 3rd: Day of Caring - 9:45 am
- 2nd: The recession and your love life - 2:10 am
- February (18)
- 27th: Love sexy movies? - 11:15 am
- 25th: Cheap eating dates - 6:10 am
- 24th: Not giving it up - 9:00 am
- 23rd: Finding love on facebook - 8:10 am
- 18th: The appeal of jerks - 8:00 am
- 18th: Bristol Palin on teen moms, her mom and sex - 2:05 am
- 17th: Are you in a bad relationship? - 9:00 am
- 16th: Getting busy on the Web - 7:00 am
- 13th: Food, sex and the economy - 9:00 am
- 12th: ... And still hating - 8:35 am
- 11th: For all major haters -- something else to do Feb. 14 - 8:10 am
- 10th: Love in the 'burbs - 7:55 am
- 8th: Romantic eats - 8:05 am
- 6th: SHE's just not that into you - 9:30 am
- 5th: Heavy petting - 9:05 am
- 4th: Did this book change your life? - 7:25 am
- 3rd: Competing couples - 6:15 am
- 2nd: You're a bad kisser and ... - 8:40 am
- January (22)
- 29th: Don't underestimate the power of a good bra - 10:35 am
- 28th: Love in this club - 8:40 am
- 27th: Finding love in the '09 - 8:20 am
- 26th: Off the hook lovin' - 8:30 am
- 23rd: After the wedding - 8:50 am
- 22nd: Get married minus the crazy - 8:35 am
- 21st: Chasing your tail - 8:25 am
- 20th: Older dating - 9:00 am
- 19th: Valentine's Day: Love it or hate it? - 8:00 am
- 16th: Be the rock - 8:45 am
- 15th: Free dating, pricey girl - 8:40 am
- 14th: Get tested - 9:20 am
- 13th: Adult toy story - 9:00 am
- 12th: The sexes and the bars - 9:05 am
- 9th: Guest Blog: How far do I have to go to find love? - 8:40 am
- 8th: Solo vacations - 9:45 am
- 8th: Porn industry stimulus package - 8:10 am
- 7th: Dipping your pen - 8:45 am
- 6th: More dating resolutions - 8:00 am
- 5th: Her mission for 2009: Get married - 9:05 am
- 2nd: Any room for me in those genes? - 9:15 am
- 1st: Older man, younger woman - 9:30 am
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- 2008 (202)
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There are women who do, women who absolutely won't and women who say they won't but secretly do. There are also, apparently, women who compete. I heard about "rainbow parties" among teens a while back and I couldn't believe it, but this was even crazier.
A friend alerted me about this story of women being arrested in an oral sex competition.
I always wanted to go to Greece if I ever had a honeymoon. I might have to rethink that.
GO TO GREECE! Do not fail to make this trip, honeymoon or not.
Whatever you take from this one news report, forget about it already. Read up on the culture - don't expect to come across oral sex contests. That's like a foreigner reading about Bob Berdella and expecting Kansas City to be filled with serial killers.
American women who dress provocatively are preyed upon by Greek men. There is a nickname for Greek men who prey upon such tourists: "Harpoons." If you insist on revealing your physical assets, don't be surprised if you receive unwanted attention. The cops will look the other way, as the cultural belief is, if you dress that way, "you're asking for it."
Dress appropriately, and prepare to have the trip of your life. The temples, the food, the people - it is the trip of a lifetime. But read up before you fly to Athens, OK??
Whatever you take from this one news report, forget about it already. Read up on the culture - don't expect to come across oral sex contests. That's like a foreigner reading about Bob Berdella and expecting Kansas City to be filled with serial killers.
American women who dress provocatively are preyed upon by Greek men. There is a nickname for Greek men who prey upon such tourists: "Harpoons." If you insist on revealing your physical assets, don't be surprised if you receive unwanted attention. The cops will look the other way, as the cultural belief is, if you dress that way, "you're asking for it."
Dress appropriately, and prepare to have the trip of your life. The temples, the food, the people - it is the trip of a lifetime. But read up before you fly to Athens, OK??
WOMEN, RESPECT YOURSELVES, YOUR BODIES, YOUR REPUTATIONS, YOUR FUTURE HUSBANDS; HAVE BOUNDARIES, PERIMETERS. THERE SHOULD BE THINGS THAT YOU JUST WONT DO, AND THEN KEEP YOUR MINDS ABOUT YOU NO MATTER HOW MUCH FUN YOUR HAVING OR HANDSOME HE IS.
Oral skills - Must be a new corporate challenge event for the women's division - I could volunteer to be one of the guys they perform on. Is there a volunteer form to complete? I always like to help women suck-seed !