Pamela Spencer
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- 2009 (114)
- July (2)
- 3rd: What no one talks about - 7:55 am
- 1st: Tired of waiting - 1:30 am
- June (14)
- 29th: Wet and wild dating - 8:00 am
- 25th: Weekend Date Idea: It's in the hole - 10:15 am
- 22nd: What's the best bar to meet someone? - 3:05 pm
- 21st: Blinding me with science - 7:25 pm
- 19th: What about your friends - 12:25 am
- 18th: Weekend date idea: Do you like to watch? - 2:35 am
- 17th: Hottest and naughtiest bachelors - 6:00 pm
- 15th: Why you should like dating - 11:25 pm
- 11th: Staying positive on KC's dating scene - 12:25 pm
- 9th: Weekend date idea: Eat something - 5:15 pm
- 7th: DJ Jazzy Jeff and the P&L - 4:50 pm
- 4th: You ain't no holla back girl - 2:20 am
- 3rd: Weekend date ideas: Party, party, party - 8:20 am
- 1st: What isn't on Craigslist? - 12:55 am
- May (18)
- 29th: It's a shame - 9:10 am
- 27th: Weekend date ideas: Get your culture fix - 8:35 am
- 25th: Healing heart trumps a cheating heart - 12:55 pm
- 22nd: The big payback - 8:05 am
- 21st: Beer vs. wine - 8:50 am
- 20th: Weekend Date Ideas: Fire and water - 11:40 pm
- 18th: No strings attatched - 5:40 pm
- 15th: "Just friends" - 8:00 am
- 14th: Twitter dating - 8:50 am
- 13th: Single in the Spotlight: Matt O'Barr - 8:50 am
- 12th: Weekend date idea No. 1 - 8:15 am
- 11th: Friend stealers - 9:15 am
- 8th: There's no piece of tail worth this - 8:45 am
- 7th: Tips for daters? - 8:45 am
- 6th: If you need someone to talk to - 8:40 am
- 5th: The science of dating - 8:05 am
- 4th: We'll have to wait on that strip Twister - 9:20 am
- 1st: Sexy advice - 9:05 am
- April (20)
- 30th: Wanna play? - 8:50 am
- 29th: Do opposites attract? - 8:20 am
- 28th: Race and online dating - 8:40 am
- 27th: Let's just cuddle - 7:55 am
- 23rd: Things are about to heat up - 10:10 am
- 22nd: You didn't plan this, did you? - 8:25 am
- 21st: Video speed dating - 8:50 am
- 20th: Fast love - 12:40 am
- 18th: Feeling sexy - 1:50 am
- 17th: 101 ways to get noticed - 7:25 am
- 16th: KC's longest happy hours - 9:35 am
- 15th: A text message for all - 8:50 am
- 13th: Cheap and easy - 9:30 am
- 13th: If you got down and dirty ... - 8:50 am
- 10th: Tell me your worst breakup stories - 9:05 am
- 9th: This is why dating stinks - 9:30 am
- 8th: Stuck in a rut or bringing the ruckus? - 6:05 am
- 6th: Is dating harder when you're smart? - 1:35 pm
- 2nd: Calling all artists - 11:05 am
- 1st: Cheap and easy - 8:35 am
- March (20)
- 31st: Playing some D - 8:25 am
- 30th: Dating by mobile phone - 9:00 am
- 27th: Get served -- like Kansas is going to - 1:15 pm
- 26th: Who's your favorite nerd? - 9:05 am
- 25th: Love and comics - 10:40 am
- 24th: Boy crazy - 9:00 am
- 20th: Did you plan this? - 8:45 am
- 19th: Go Down Together - 9:30 am
- 18th: Sex is not a crime - 2:05 am
- 16th: Girls, girls, girls - 2:00 am
- 13th: Eharmony's gay dating site to launch - 7:55 am
- 12th: Obama loves women, too - 2:40 am
- 11th: Dating in KC is ... - 8:15 am
- 10th: What matters to you? - 8:45 am
- 8th: I love women - 8:20 am
- 6th: Is first love overrated? - 9:20 am
- 5th: Not-so-sexy movie and rope climbers - 7:55 am
- 4th: Love times two and sex and you - 9:00 am
- 3rd: Day of Caring - 9:45 am
- 2nd: The recession and your love life - 2:10 am
- February (18)
- 27th: Love sexy movies? - 11:15 am
- 25th: Cheap eating dates - 6:10 am
- 24th: Not giving it up - 9:00 am
- 23rd: Finding love on facebook - 8:10 am
- 18th: The appeal of jerks - 8:00 am
- 18th: Bristol Palin on teen moms, her mom and sex - 2:05 am
- 17th: Are you in a bad relationship? - 9:00 am
- 16th: Getting busy on the Web - 7:00 am
- 13th: Food, sex and the economy - 9:00 am
- 12th: ... And still hating - 8:35 am
- 11th: For all major haters -- something else to do Feb. 14 - 8:10 am
- 10th: Love in the 'burbs - 7:55 am
- 8th: Romantic eats - 8:05 am
- 6th: SHE's just not that into you - 9:30 am
- 5th: Heavy petting - 9:05 am
- 4th: Did this book change your life? - 7:25 am
- 3rd: Competing couples - 6:15 am
- 2nd: You're a bad kisser and ... - 8:40 am
- January (22)
- 29th: Don't underestimate the power of a good bra - 10:35 am
- 28th: Love in this club - 8:40 am
- 27th: Finding love in the '09 - 8:20 am
- 26th: Off the hook lovin' - 8:30 am
- 23rd: After the wedding - 8:50 am
- 22nd: Get married minus the crazy - 8:35 am
- 21st: Chasing your tail - 8:25 am
- 20th: Older dating - 9:00 am
- 19th: Valentine's Day: Love it or hate it? - 8:00 am
- 16th: Be the rock - 8:45 am
- 15th: Free dating, pricey girl - 8:40 am
- 14th: Get tested - 9:20 am
- 13th: Adult toy story - 9:00 am
- 12th: The sexes and the bars - 9:05 am
- 9th: Guest Blog: How far do I have to go to find love? - 8:40 am
- 8th: Solo vacations - 9:45 am
- 8th: Porn industry stimulus package - 8:10 am
- 7th: Dipping your pen - 8:45 am
- 6th: More dating resolutions - 8:00 am
- 5th: Her mission for 2009: Get married - 9:05 am
- 2nd: Any room for me in those genes? - 9:15 am
- 1st: Older man, younger woman - 9:30 am
- July (2)
- 2008 (202)
sex (76)
single (18)
men (17)
women (17)
relationships (9)
MARRIAGE (8)
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Holiday (5)
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CHEATING (4)
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Halloween (2)
interracial (2)
long distance (2)
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and (1)
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weddings (1)

Or even a booty call? Gas went up again. Times are not cheap. (But here's some cheap date ideas if you are looking.) Which makes me wonder, how far are people willing to go for dates with gas prices so high?
My Novio is visiting from Colombia and he's staying with his fam up north of the river. It hurts our pockets a little bit driving back and forth, but we rarely get to see each other so we do it and I don't mind at all.
But the driving is temporary.
What about people who have to do that on a regular basis? Are couples dating "long-distance" between Harrisonville and Liberty or KC and Wichita giving up right now? Or just deciding to move in together? If a relationship between a KC person and a Lawrence resident was just on the edge of blooming, do you think they're deciding to call it quits?
Or let's say you meet someone awesome on an online dating site or at a bar. They live in Excelsior Springs and you live in Brookside. This is a drive you might have considered before, but now you wonder if it's worth the gas money for somebody you may or may not end up liking. And if you drive 30 miles for a date somewhere, are you pissed if you don't get a kiss?
I would be.
But I hate driving.
I once crossed a boy off my list because he lived somewhere off Barry Road. No thank you. A few years ago I considered driving to Overland Park for a date a huge compromise on my part. I did it because the guy was really hot. Plus he bought dinner and good wine, and gas wasn't $4.
Things didn't work out, but I should have stayed friends with him. He owned a gas station.




